Motivation vs. Reality

Been there, done that…


I have a love/hate relationship with social media- probably like many of you. But, one thing I do love is the support and ideas we can all get from (positive) groups on there. I love the motivation and support of all my Peleton FB communities, so I do like to spend a little time each day reading through peoples’ posts.


One thing I’ve noticed lately is people posting this question: “How do I get the motivation to workout? I used to love doing X, Y, Z, and now I just can’t get myself to do anything”


So, here’s the thing. Motivation comes and goes and no one has it all the time. But, many people do work out consistently. Are they motivated every day?

Def not


Is it easy every workout?

Ha!


So how do they do it? More importantly, how can we get ourselves to initiate, re-engage in or stay consistent with a workout program when the motivation just isn’t there???


I have a few ideas:


1. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Seriously though. Just stop comparing who you are now with who you may have been at, say, 20 years old when you didn’t have a family, stressful job, time constraints, etc…Instead, just commit to doing ten minutes of a cardio workout and 10 minutes of any strength workout (choose what’s fun for you) and then move on with your day. Schedule it in your day, like you would a doctors appointment or work meeting. Over time, it will become easier to get that 10 minutes started and you will naturally want to increase the duration of your workouts- trust me!


2. Pair something you enjoy with the 10 minute workouts or “sandwich” it between two things you enjoy. Having something to look forward to while working out or right after will help your brain to associate exercise with something positive. I’m a sucker for a little Netflix/Hulu show or a podcast I’ve been dying to listen to- and I save said episode to watch/listen to ONLY during my workout.


3. Get yourself an accountability partner or group. I regularly run nutrition, wellness and healthy habit groups and my clients who participate have SO much more success than those trying to go at it alone. Twenty years in this industry and I can’t stress the importance of accountability and support enough.


If you’ve read this far, I hope you come away from this article knowing that: 1. You’re doing amazing and there’s nothing “wrong” with you for not being motivated and 2. You can feel amazing/energized and healthy again!! Start small, stay consistent, make it fun and get yourself a partner (or reach out to join one of my groups anytime!)

Would love to hear your tips for staying consistent with healthy habits too!!


To your health, ~Jess

Revitalize Your Routine With These Techniques for Long-Term Wellness Goals

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Special thanks to Camille Johnson for yet another great article about self-care!! Here’s a little info about Camille and her mission: Camille and her friend experienced grief at the same time, but the processes looked completely different. She asked her friend about her experience, and she was kind enough to share her grief story with her. She pointed her to a bereavement counselor, who gave Camille the tools she needed to heal. And now Camille wants to pay it forward through her site, Bereaver.

Embarking on your wellness and self-care journey requires more than desire; it demands a deliberate and strategic approach for lasting improvement. This guide, courtesy of Jessica’s Fitness, equips you with actionable strategies to effectively pursue your wellness goals. By adopting these strategies, you ensure a solid foundation for your journey towards personal well-being.

Clarify Your Personal Wellness Definitions

Start by explicitly defining what wellness and self-care mean specifically to you. This personal definition will guide your journey and help tailor your objectives to be more meaningful and achievable. Break these broad goals down into specific, actionable tasks such as scheduling daily mindfulness sessions or setting a weekly meal planning routine. This approach not only simplifies your goals but also integrates them seamlessly into your daily life, making them more manageable and less overwhelming.

Make Walking a Priority

Walk more often to optimize your mental and physical health. Seek out areas with a high Walk Score of 70 or above to easily achieve your daily step goals. This practice boosts both your cardiovascular fitness and mental well-being. Regular walking in pedestrian-friendly areas can enhance your overall health. Making walking a daily habit helps you maintain consistency in your physical activity routine.

Integrate Self-Care Into Your Routine

Embed self-care practices into your daily routine to make them feel less like chores and more like a natural part of your day. Whether it’s reading a book, taking a long bath, or practicing yoga, finding activities that relax and rejuvenate you can make self-care an anticipated part of your schedule. This integration helps to prevent burnout and ensures that self-care remains a priority, not an afterthought.

Explore Diverse Activities

Experiment with a range of activities to discover what genuinely brings you joy and relaxation. Whether it’s physical exercise, arts and crafts, or learning a new skill, diversifying your activities keeps your self-care regimen engaging and exciting. This variety ensures that your wellness plan remains fresh and appealing, increasing the likelihood that you will stick with it over the long term.

Recognize and Celebrate Achievements

Take time to recognize and celebrate each achievement, no matter how small. These celebrations act as milestones of progress and are essential for sustaining motivation. Whether you’ve stuck to your wellness plan for a week, or have successfully managed stress through learned techniques, acknowledging these victories provides encouragement and builds confidence in your ability to meet your goals.

Engage a Support Network

Share your self-care and wellness goals with friends and family who can offer support and motivation. Having a supportive community provides external accountability and encouragement, which can be incredibly valuable on days when your motivation wanes. This network also serves as a sounding board for sharing successes and challenges, making your journey a shared experience.

Utilize these strategies diligently to enhance your wellness and self-care efforts. The foundation of success in personal growth lies in your consistent efforts and unwavering dedication. Keep your goals in clear focus, and rely on your support network for encouragement and accountability. Make it a habit to acknowledge and celebrate each accomplishment, no matter its size, as this will help you stay motivated.

Jessica’s Fitness offers both individual and group personal training and health coaching sessions for those who want to make healthy changes to their lifestyle. Get in touch today to talk about your needs!